Life lessons and inspiration of a professional mom, teacher, and friend.

Back, once again

It’s been over four months since I’ve posted. I’ve never been very consistent with this blog…though I get excited about my ideas for it. This is why I have never kept a diary.

But things may change.

We have moved and started a new chapter in our lives. We’ve got our own apartment and I am having so much more time with the kids. Since this blog is supposed to be a parenting blog…I hope this will create more inspiration and more topics to post about. We’ll see.

My first post should be about the joys of apartment living. I never wanted to live in an apartment. I used to dread the thought of it and usually would get sick when visiting friends in apartments. But now that I am living in one, I must say that there are so many joys about it that I don’t think about my complaints much. Since I should be getting to bed now, I will write about it soon. :-)

Trying to Catch Up

I’ve been posting on Blogger more often and have fallen a bit behind here at WordPress. So, instead of trying to post everything all over again here, I’ll give you this nice little link. Check out some recent photos there.

From now on I’ll stay up to date on both sites!

MUAH!

By the way, I love this girl! She’s been a support through tough times and an excellent co-worker!

I love this girl!

A Mother’s Beauty

pretty mommiesOnce in a while, we moms need to get away from the hustle and bustle of home life and have some fun. Let’s face it, we are beautiful in our own unique way, so we should get out and “let our light shine!” Take some time off away from home from time to time.–It’s great fun!

This photo was taken at The Brunswick House, a college pub here in Toronto during a fund-raising event (held in the summer). We had tons of fun that night rocking out with Haven, Salt of Earth, and Plan of Attack!

All three of us are happy mommies. Joy has two little munchkins, Jean has one, and I am quite happy with my five! I think we were all looking cute that night.

Feeling beautiful doesn’t always come naturally though…heh. When you have day after day of teaching, planning, cleaning, care-taking, etc. with barely any time left for anything else, it’s tempting to feel anything but pretty. Yet, the truth is that we are amazing women! The strength of spirit and contentment that comes with bearing and raising children makes us glow!

If you’re starting to feel a little frazzled and don’t like what you see in the mirror, take some time to tune in to yourself. Exercise, put on some makeup, treat yourself to a footbath…believe me, it’s worth the time and effort. You’ll feel rejuvenated and much more ready to face the challenges that come your way every day! ;-)

I’ve fallen behind…Sorry to those who were actually checking out my Blog. I do have a blog going on BLOGGER, which I’ve been a bit more faithful to. But I like WordPress for many reasons. So I’ll do my best to do better here on this site. I haven’t posted in so long because of TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES!!!

My computer needed some serious repair for a long time. Now it’s ok, but will take me time to resume my usual enthusiastic posting habits…which I suppose have not been all that consistent to begin with but at least were regular enough to keep someone out there interested…

Lots of cool stuff happening with the kids though. We had a  fun camping trip at the end of summer and previous to that the kids got to go to an all you can eat Chinese buffet. Since then, we have been involved in a lot of activities here and there.

I’ll try to post once a week.

Canada Day!

The kiddos ready for action:

kiddos

They got on stage and really rocked out!

stage stuff

A sampling of the fireworks we watched:

fireworks

We admired an almost full moon on the way home!

the moon on July 1, 2007

By Mike Farris, News reprint

History is filled with famous homeschooling kids who have grown up to amazing things. Here are a few examples…

John and Charles Wesley

No account of modern church history would be complete without the stories of John and Charles Wesley. Born to Samuel and Susanna Wesley of Lincolnshire, England, John and Charles were the 15th and 18th of 19 children. Susanna schooled all her children at home, and she didn’t confine their learning to mere academics. Together with her husband, an Anglican pastor, she taught her children the Bible and trained them to serve God.
Susanna’s child rearing was put to the test when John left home to pursue higher learning at Oxford. Ordained a priest in the Church of England in 1728, John began a ministry of open-air preaching.
John Wesley traveled over 250,000 miles in his lifetime, spreading the Gospel. With a strong emphasis on good works, the Wesleys founded clinics for the sick, and orphanages and schools for the poor. Ultimately, they were a part of the Great Awakening, which swept the English-speaking world and saw hundreds of thousands being saved.
Mothers and fathers of large families, take heart. Among your children there may be a John or Charles Wesley, who, with a godly upbringing, can dramatically impact the world for Christ.

Ansel Adams

Ansel Adams, born in 1902, was an extremely active, creative child. When he was placed in traditional school, that active nature led to trouble almost from the beginning. He simply could not sit in the classroom when there was an outdoors to explore.
After Ansel’s expulsion from various schools, both public and private, his father decided to teach his son himself. One year, his school consisted of a year’s pass to the 1915 Panama-Pacific International Exposition, where he took in art, architecture, music, and other achievements of civilization.
The world remembers Ansel Adams for giving us the most dramatic landscape photographs of the century. In his autobiography, Adams says: “I often wonder at the strength and courage my father had in taking me out of the traditional school situation and providing me with these extraordinary learning experiences. I am certain he established the positive direction of my life that otherwise, given my native hyperactivity, could have been confused and catastrophic. I trace who I am and the direction of my development to those years of growing up in our house on the dunes, propelled especially by an internal spark tenderly kept alive and glowing by my father.”

Parents know their children better than any teacher ever could.

Thomas Edison

In 1847, a seventh child was born to Samuel and Nancy Elliot Edison. Thomas Alva was a mischievous and inquisitive child. His parents placed him in formal school at age seven, but his active, creative nature was stifled in a rigid educational setting.
Nancy Edison, a former schoolteacher, trained her youngest son in the basics and fostered his creative, inquisitive nature. As one Edison biographer put it, “She was determined that no formalism would cramp his style, no fetters hobble in the free rein, the full sweep of his imagination.” Edison himself said of his mother, “She instilled in me the love and purpose of learning.”
The results of Thomas Edison’s love for learning are legendary. After beginning work as a telegraph operator in 1863, Edison invented improvements to the telegraph. He went on to improve fire alarm systems, stock tickers, and the telephone transmitter, and to invent, among other things, the phonograph and the incandescent light bulb.
Thomas Edison obtained the most U.S. patents ever given to one person, and ranks as one of the greatest inventors and industrial leaders in history. He also serves as just one more example of the power of parent-directed education.

Pearl Buck

Pearl S. Buck grew up on the mission field in China, and became a famous American author and winner of the 1932 Pulitzer Prize. A lively, precocious child, she pestered her mother with countless questions. Pearl’s mother, realizing that her daughter needed a creative outlet, began her education at home. She especially focused on Pearl’s skill for writing, and encouraged her to write something every week. At the age of six, Pearl began writing for missionary magazines. Her writing was also published regularly by the Shanghai Mercury, an English newspaper that offered prizes for the best stories and articles written by children.
It was not surprising when Pearl decided as a young adult to become a novelist. She went on to write more than 65 books, plus hundreds of short stories and essays.
She is best known for her books dealing sympathetically with life in China, including her widely acclaimed novel, The Good Earth. In 1938, Pearl S. Buck received the Nobel Prize for Literature.
Although Pearl received her later education at various schools, her most significant years of academic training were spent at home. It was her mother who recognized her flair for writing and fostered her creative development.

Florence Nightingale

On May 12, 1820, a baby girl was born in Florence, Italy, to wealthy British parents. Named for the city in which she was born, Florence Nightingale was brought up to be an intelligent woman of good society. Both her mother and her father contributed to her academic and social training. While Mrs. Nightingale instructed Florence and her sister in social graces and the skill of running a large household, the girls’ father taught them English grammar, history, philosophy, Latin, French, Greek, German, and Italian. Florence also received Biblical training from her parents, learning to read the New Testament in its original Greek.
When she was 16, Florence heard God’s call to a special life work: easing the suffering of the sick and dying. She began withdrawing from society life to concentrate on studying health and reforms for the poor.
Florence Nightingale did much to introduce sanitary nursing methods to the whole world, especially to the battlefield. Among her many public honors, she became the first woman to receive the British Order of Merit.
Florence Nightingale and the others I mention above are just a few examples of fertile minds and pioneer spirits developed by home schooling. We have yet to see how today’s home schooled children will change the world.

So True

Children have the ability to mold and make the parents as much as the parents do to mold and make the child.

I wrote the following tidbit 5 years ago when I was living in Africa…

We all want a “perfect” world, though deep inside we know it doesn’t exist. I’m one of those people that is constantly moving misplaced things a hairline back to where they are “supposed” to be. My idea of a clean room is spotless surfaces, no clutter.

Before I became a mommy to 4 energetic boys and an even more energetic girl, I would swear that my kid would never get his shirts dirty when he ate. I would smile with smug satisfaction at the fact that my room was always neat, and no matter what happened, I was in full control…Fast forward a few years to the present. This is the scenario:

First thing in the morning: Wake up time is here. Some early birds are already up and around! While I try to shake my tired body into a state of wakefulness, I survey the room. I can see a pile of Hotwheel cars out of the corner of my eye. Suddenly, a sharp pain shoots through my foot. Quickly I inspect it to find that a teensy Lego piece is responsible for all the trouble! Further inspection reveals a trail of Legos leading to the bathroom. I look at my watch and see that time is running out. Kids need to get dressed, to breakfast, then morning devotions and finally school. The day has started! Of course the kids, after some reminders, put away their toys. The only think that irks me is the stray Lego here and there…

At the breakfast table I look on as my twins proceed to baptize their clothes in milk. What happened to those immaculate shirts I always dreamed about? My seven year old boy comes to the table and I notice new holes in his shirt. What to do? I send him back to change, knowing that there are only a few shirts of his that are still alive and “passable”.

You see, once you have kids, you change. You begin to see that perfection doesn’t lie in outward appearances or material things. True perfection is really imperfection, or should I say, the ability to live with imperfection and love it! When I look into my kids eyes, and see into their beautiful hearts, I see just how perfect God has made them! This helps me to have more patience with their mistakes and failings. Then I am easier on myself and my own mistakes! So we all learn and grow together!

The following poem tells it all better than I could!

If I live in a house of spotless beauty
with everything in it’s place, but
have not love, I am a housekeeper,
not a homemaker.

If I live for waxing, polishing, and
decorative achievements, but
have not love, my children learn
cleanliness, not godliness.

Love leaves the dust in search of a child’s laugh.
Love smiles at the tiny fingerprints on a newly cleaned window.
Love wipes away the tears before it wipes up the spilled milk.
Love picks up the child before it picks up the toys.
Love is present through the trials.
Love reprimands, reproves, and is responsive.
Love crawls with the baby, walks with the toddler, runs with the child;
then stands aside to let the child walk into adulthood.
Love is the key that opens Salvation’s message to a child’s heart.

Before I became a parent, I took
glory in my house of perfection.
Now I glory in God’s perfection of
my children.
As a parent there are many things
I must teach my children,
but the greatest of these is Love!

(adapted from 1 Corinthians chapter 13)

Botanical Gardens

Botanical Gardens

“The best teachers and parents are the ones who are able to think outside the box and put themselves in the mind-set of the children they teach. They are able to find what works and are willing to try many different techniques until they discover the best solution to helping their children learn.”

excerpt from The Excellent 11, Ron Clark

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